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Three Dating Sites to Consider to

Find “The One” this Valentine’s Day



It’s going to be a day of dates, surprises, and gifts like chocolates, roses, teddy bears, and many more. It’s inevitable to feel envious of people getting all these. For once, maybe you want to stop being that someone who comments “Sana All” on other people’s blooming love lives. Start moving and find yourself, someone!  You can start by making yourself available online.


There are several mobile apps available for you to use in finding “the one” this coming Valentine. You can simply just be cozy at home while doing the whole online process. Dating sites are the most accessible portals for single individuals who want to find a partner. These best fit those who are ready to mingle and are open to any kind of set-up. It may be true that hook-up culture is widely the trend in these kinds of sites, but it’s always up to you. These are just mediums to connect with people, you do the talking, and you do the decision-making. You are in control of how you want the whole journey to be. Out of these apps’ million subscribers, there must be that one person who shares the same purpose of getting into the sphere of online chatting as you do.

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Here is a list of the online dating sites and applications you can check and see which better works for you.


1. Bumble


If you are in your 20’s and 30’s, you probably have heard of Bumble. Millennials dominate this platform probably because of its women empowering feature. Instead of the old-fashioned way of getting on a date where the man asks the woman, it’s the other way around.  The girls have full control of making the first move. It is up to them when to initiate the conversation. It still is consensual as they can’t just message anyone without matching first. You can swipe right the people that interest you as some details are available for you to screen. The only thing that you have to look out for is the next 24 hours after matching. There’s a time set for you to be able to keep the conversation.  If you want to skip the hassle part, you can pay the premium!


Fun fact, more than 100 million individuals are using Bumble!  Millions of users, one could be your future date this February 14.


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2. Tinder

If you are more into casual flirting, Tinder might just be the right app for you. It has gained popularity among college students and young professionals who are looking for buddies to have fun with. It’s not that this app isn’t for a serious relationship, but it has made an image of being an avenue to hang out when it’s all fun that you want. Some may disagree as several stories about finding their spouses from a tinder match have circulated online. Whichever you are looking for, there is no harm in trying it out. Install and set up your profile now. You are a step closer to finding your “the one”.


Since Tinder’s first launch in 2012, it has reached 400 million downloads. Currently, its active users are about 57 million. One could be your potential date this February.


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3. eHarmony

This is the site for those who are looking for a serious relationship that could last. One unique feature of this application is its scientifically studied Compatibility Matching system.  Unlike any other platforms where you choose who to match, eHarmony’s matching algorithm does the work for you. You only have to answer a questionnaire that was tailored to figure out compatibility between people. This set of questions went through a series of experimentation as the founder and owner of the app are committed to bridging two individuals who are fit with each other. It is available on the website, ios, and android.


Additional facts, eHarmony was named 2021 Dating Sites Reviews Choice Award- Match System. Also, you don’t have to worry that you just figured this out today and Valentine’s Day is fast approaching.  The statistic shows that it only takes approximately 14 minutes to land a date in this application!


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All these three sites and applications are just instruments you can use in finding the one for you. Like any other instrument, it has its limitations too. Its effectiveness of use depends on the person handling it. Let this be a reminder that you are in charge of your life. You do what you want to do for so long that it does not trespass someone else’s privacy. Also, there is no shame in wanting to know how it feels having someone to run to, someone to talk all your worries to, and someone to call your home. Searching for love when it can’t seem to find you is okay. If being with someone this Valentine’s Day will fill your heart with joy, by all means, find someone. You are amazing, you are beautiful and you deserve to be happy.

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